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Self Motivation: The Power of Love

2009-11-27T18:22:00.000-08:00

"Why after attending a seminar motivation, motivation does not last long?" In another article I have discussed that it may decrease motivation. Expected permanent motivation, is the first mistake. The second reason is that we will lose motivation if we only expect motivation from the outside. For the strongest motivation comes from yourself.

In many NLP books mentioned that there are only two motivating factors that pursuing pleasure and avoiding suffering or pain. But if I kerucutkan again, there is only one motivating factor, that is love. The greater our love, the greater the motivation to get up.

Look, many desperate people to commit suicide because of broken love. This illustrates that love has the power to move us, even for things that bad and unreasonable. Maybe you have a lot of listening to stories of love trash, anything done "for love".

Joe Vitale realized the power of love as the primary motivator when he saw the movie 50 First Dates (2004) (First date 50) which describes the efforts of a man who every day try to make seroang women fall for him. Business is done every day, because the idol girl have memory capable of remembering only 1 day. This is just one of several love stories in movies.

You can use the power of love is to gain self-motivation. Of course, not limited to the love of the opposite sex, but love other things too. When you love your job, you will have enough motivation at work. Look pemasin football, in the middle of a tight schedule, they still enjoy playing in the field, because they love the profession as pesebak ball.

However, there is the strongest love. When you do not have this love, so you've wasted your life. This is the greatest love, which motivates the mujahideen on the battlefield. Not afraid to die, not afraid of pain, fear nothing, for the sake of this love. Is no other love, the love of God.

Because the work is part of worship. So did the business is part of worship. And, as worship is our love for God, then our business work and also is the embodiment of our love for God. Should, when we work and business, we will have a high motivation.

Have?

Let us pancangkan our intention, that the work of our business and to worship. Let us fertilizer our consciousness, that business and our work is one manifestation of our love for God.

Is there a feeling our love for God? If you feel less, then our faith must be increased again. For the love of God is only owned by those who believe.

As for those who believe, really, really love to God. (Surat al-Baqara: 165)

Focus on Your Strength

2009-11-27T15:01:00.000-08:00

A fatal mistake is often done by many people is to fix all his flaws and weaknesses. Instead should not improve, it remains to be done, but with the right proportions. You will spend benyak when trying to fix all the shortcomings and weaknesses.

Everyone has flaws and weaknesses. You and me, we are not alone. Even successful people also have a bunch of weaknesses and shortcomings. They are not without shortcomings and weaknesses, they can be successful because they focus on their strengths rather than fix any shortcomings or weaknesses.

Even if you want to improve yourself, choose the things most important to you. You can not fix it because going to spend your life. All people are given the advantages and disadvantages. Optimize your strengths and you will soon get a brilliant result.

How?

1. Identify your strengths. What do you do well, excel, and most produce?
2. How do I use your strengths to achieve your goals.
3. Learn more about how to achieve your goals. Identify the assets and skills required.
4. You will find (perhaps) some of the skills you need but you can not. Maybe this is your shortcomings.

If you want to correct deficiencies, then focus on improving these shortcomings. This is a deficiency that you need to fix, so do not you fix all the deficiencies. Only the required course. Thus, you will not spend time on things that are not important.

But in addition we repair deficiencies, there are actually other things you can do, namely to cover shortages. What's the difference? Shortfall is not always by yourself. You can cover the shortage by working together, delegation, or outsourcing.

Meanwhile, you can focus on your strengths. Use your power as optimal as possible so that the results would be great or you become a person of extraordinary. With this mindset, you will not be time wasted, you will focus on important things. Achievement and success will be achieved. [Revolusi Waktu]

Ummu Fadhl -Rodhiallahu 'anha-

2009-11-27T09:14:00.001-08:00

He is Lubabah bint al-Haris ibn Bajir bin Huzn bin Hilaliyah. He is Lubabah al-Kubra, known as the Umm Fadl kuniyahnya. Umm Fadl was one of four women who expressed his faith by the Prophet Sholallahu 'alaihi wasallam. The fourth woman is Maimunah, Umm Fadl, Asma 'and Salma.

As is the Mother of the Believers Maimunah Rodhiallahu 'anha brother of Umm Fadl. While Asma 'and Salma are both sisters of the road because both his father is the daughter of' Umais.

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha was the wife of Abbas, uncle of the Prophet Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam, and mother of six noble, intelligent, and yet there was a woman who gave birth to men like them. They are Fadl, Abdullah al-Faqih, al-Faqih Ubaidullah, Ma'bad, Qatsam and Abdurrahman.

About this Fadl Umm Abdullah ibn Yazid said,
No man who gave birth to the people that I see leading as the sixth son of Umm FADH
Son of two noble parents
Uncle Mustafa noble Nabiyul
Closing the Apostles and the best of messengers
Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha converted to Islam before the Hijrah, he was the first woman who converted to Islam after Khadijah (Mother of the Believers Rodhiallahu' anha) as reported by his son Abdullah ibn Abbas Rodhiallahu 'anhu, "My mother and I are among those who are oppressed of women and children. "

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha including high-ranking woman and noble among the women. Sholallahu Rasulullah 'alaihi wasallam sometimes visit him and sometimes a nap in his house.

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha was a brave woman and faithful, who fought the enemy of Abu Lahab Allaah and killed him. Narrated by Ibn Ishak from Ikrimah said, "Abu Rafi 'slave of Allah Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam said, 'I've become slaves to Abbas, when Islam came to the Abbas to Islam followed by Umm Fadl, but Abbas is still respected for his people."

Abu Lahab could not accompany the war of Badr and mewakilkannya to Ash bin Hisham bin Mughirah, so their habits when not following a war so he represents to others.

When came the news of what had happened to the people of Quraysh in the battle of Badr in which Allaah has been humiliating and degrading Abu Lahab, then on the other hand we feel the strength and 'Izzah ourselves. I was a man who is weak, I'm working to make glass that I carve in the rocks around the zam-zam, for the sake of Allah one day I was sitting there next to me while Umm Fadl, who was sitting, before we walk, but no good has come down to us, suddenly there came a run of Abu Lahab then sitting, when she sat suddenly people say, 'This is it Abu Sufyan ibn al-Harith had come from Badr. Abu Lahab said, "Come over here so I'm waiting for your news.

Then sit Abu Jahl and the people stood gathered around him. Abu Lahab said, "O son of my brother preach how the human condition (in the battle of Badr)?" Abu Sufyan said, "By Allah, when we meet them, they suddenly will not cease attacking our forces, they fight against us as they pleased, and they captured us they liked. By God even when I raise such forces, we saw a group of male black and white horse was in the midst of men, by God they did not set foot on the ground. "

Abu Rafi 'said, "I picked up a stone in my hands, then said,' By Allah it is an angel. Suddenly Abu Lahab fist and hit me with a hard blow, so I've made him angry, then he grabbed me and slammed me to the ground, then she sit me and beat me while I was a man who is weak. All of a sudden there stood Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha took a stone pillar and his Tap your hard on the head of Abu Lahab that hurt him badly. Rodhiallahu Umm Fadl' anha said, 'I have so weaken its credibility fell. "

Then wake up in a state of Abu Lahab humiliated, By Allah he does not live after that but only seven in the evening to which Allaah has laid on Him the ulcer disease that causes death. "

Such treatment of a brave woman who mukminah against the enemy which Allaah has thus become gugurlah pride and honor because of tainted merosotlah. What a proud history of Islam which has been recorded Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha as a model for the women who nurtured by Islam.

Ibn Sa'd mentions in the ath-al-Kubra Thabaqat that Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha a day dream with a wonderful dream, so she hastened to complain to the Prophet Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam, he said, "O Messenger of Allah I am dreaming as though some of thy members should be in my house. " Sholallahu Rasulullah 'alaihi wasallam said,
"Your dream is good, later Fatima gave birth to a boy who later would you feed it with milk that you give for your kid (Qatsam)."

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha came out with joy because of the news, and not long after Fatimah Rodhiallahu' anha delivery Hasan ibn Ali Rodhiallahu 'anhu who later cared for by Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu' anha.

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha said, "when I came Suata Messenger Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam, with a baby is the Messenger of Sholallahu 'alaihi wasallam immediately picked her up and kissed the baby, but suddenly the baby peed Sholallahu Rasulullah' alaihi wasallam, and he He said, "O Umm Fadl hold this child because he has mengencingiku."

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha said, "So I took the baby and I pinched that she was crying, I said," You have trouble because you have the Messenger of Allah on him. "When seeing the baby's crying Sholallahu Rasulullah' alaihi wasallam said," O Umm Fadl you are troubling precisely because it has made my son cry. "Then the Prophet Sholallahu 'alaihi wasallam asked for water and he splashed into the urine affected later said,
"If a baby boy then percikilah with water, but when she then wash the baby."

Among the memorable events Lubabah bint al-Haris Rodhiallahu 'anha is when many people asked him when the day of `Arafah is the Messenger of Allah Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam shaum or not? So with his policies, he eliminates the problems that had befallen the Muslims in a way he called one of his children and then told him to send a glass of milk to the Prophet Sholallahu 'alaihi wasallam, when he was in Arafat, and then when he found the Prophet Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam to be seen by everyone he accepted a glass of milk and then drink it.

On the other side of Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha studying hadith ash-Sharif from the Prophet Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam, and he narrated the hadith as many as thirty. As for who narrated from him is his son he Abdulllah ibn Abbas Rodhiallahu 'anhu, that is his slave Tamam, Anas Ibn Malik, and others.
Then wafatlah Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha at the time of Caliph Ustman ibn Affan Rodhiallahu' anhu after left us a good example that should be imitated as a mother who gave birth shalihah figures such as Abdullah ibn Abbas Rodhiallahu 'anhu; kyai Turjumanul people and the Koran ( an expert in the interpretation of the Koran), So has provided the best example for us in terms of heroism which emanates from the true belief that comes from the courage that the enemy could drop Allaah has given the most severe hostility. [Mahmud Mahdi al-Istanbuly]

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2009-11-27T02:38:00.000-08:00

Doom is like a bill of debt. Not expected to come, but certainly visited. Anyone will be able to turn traffic deaths. No matter the age, let alone social status. Sometimes, never imagined, when death is ready to meet a dear person.

Not all of us ready to face the death of those we love. Does the mother, father, husband, wife, children and other relatives. In a variety of unpreparedness that we can react unconsciously expressed. Started crying, angry, and even fainting. And that is now faced Bu Neng.

A month already Bu Neng second son died. The youngest age of three years is no longer helpless in the face Tipes disease. Actually, the boy kept hoping for Bu Neng large: cute, smart, nimble, and obedient. There are many other good qualities that only Mother Neneng themselves understood.

She could still see how the child's prayer. Diligent, but funny. He often wore his cap a big course. One of the most harmonious prayer the youngest hate: basil. The reason, in the fall rukulah cap. "Well, come off!" Said the youngest in memory of Mrs. Neneng.

His smile was the youngest has not lost in the shadow of Bu Neng. Sweet, charming. Tiredness after the trouble in the kitchen could vanish if the youngest smile. "Tired, yes, Mom?" He said, taking off his smile. Her lips parted beautiful. His gaze was so hard to interpret a concern that very deep. Like, he wanted to give a gift in exchange for Bu Neng distress. But, just a smile can offer.

"Ah, my son ...," Mrs. Neneng muffled voice. Mothers who are also employees of a private company as drawn in the shadow of the youngest lawsuit. If it were so, he drowned in guilt. He felt that his work has split at the office of his two worlds. World women and women who want to develop the potential and careers.

However, the sharpness of the lawsuit that her husband often blunted Bu Neng. "You're not the type of mother who abandoned the child. And again, hours of work you're only six hours a day, "said the husband assured. At that moment, the spirit of Bu Neng refreshed. Speech he really think his heart straight crookedness that is not karuan.

Bu Neng also been blamed aides. "What the hell, sister. Kok sick children do not cepet taken to a doctor! Basic village! "Bu Neng snapped one day. No longer control his anger. He forgot about his anger was directed to an old woman the same age as her mother. Santunnya suddenly evaporates some where. And, Inahlah Mbok tears that eventually reduce Bu Neng emotions. Sobs a woman who had little care when re-align Bu Neng reason.

Unfortunately, reasoning that came too late. Inah Mbok already sick. His heart was torn apart by words such as his young master. Inah Mbok really want to protest. Bu Neng not just a loss, he was like losing a precious jewel. That alone makes the heart stricken. Especially if blame blame as 'village'! Since then, Bu Neng no longer able to enjoy Inah Mbok services. The old mother had returned home.

Who else can be blamed? The feeling is that often piercing the heart Bu Neng. Her subconscious was still unable to accept the reality of what happened. Why should the youngest. Why not someone else. Why God is not fair!

Make this one, awareness Bu Neng actually in the lowest level. And that's when he thought the conflict had claimed his understanding of destiny. He was disappointed with the verdict of God. In fact, once he understood that God is Wise. He knew very well that a bad event has two sides: the test and wisdom.

But, that's where the problem. Disappointment Bu Neng had buried his consciousness. He no longer could see the two sides. Examination was heavy make sense Bu Neng dose. And, his views about the wisdom behind it like a suspicion of smoke covered in destiny. Why should the youngest is just three years to enjoy life? Why not him. He is more pleasure if the bungsulah who feel what he feels right now.

Maybe, when this is Mrs. Neneng feel something tangible from destiny. That fate, especially in contact with the dying will intersect with a lot of things. Problem understanding, maturity, readiness, awareness, and patience. How often, he said 'take what is' to a friend musibah.Tapi affected, it is only limited understanding. Others have not.

Bu Neng consciousness began to recover when he looked around the room his home. Lonely. No more giggling laughter the youngest. No more saying 'Tired, huh Mom?'. No more entertainment cap fell. No more smile that makes good heart. That is the reality. Life is real, there was death. If you dare to accept life, why be afraid to meet death. "My youngest is already dead," whispered her heart of hearts. Slowly but surely, his consciousness began to rise.

Bu Neng awareness figure reminiscent of a Muslim in the time of the Prophet, Umm Sulaym. A mother who just hid the news of the death of the son of his father's only child traveling far. She worried that her husband was shocked. With patience, awareness, and maturity, sweet tertutur news of his mouth. "The owners have taken possession of dititipkanNya," that's saying to her husband Sulaim Umm.

How he was very familiar about the story, but only time can give birth admiration. Not all knowledge led to consciousness. And this time, he really felt dwarfed when compared with the story he used to say it. How could a mother can cope with single sons obituaries.

"Astaghfirullah!" Bu Neng began regret that. Knows how many victims who have been subjected to kepicikannya. Somehow Inah Mbok feeling in the village now. And one more, he has sued the wisdom of the All-Wise, God Almighty.

Life and death are the secrets of God. No one who knows, what life was born. And no one thinks, who picked up the death. Doom is not like a bill of debt. Only difference, death came not say anything. [muhammadnuh@eramuslim.com]

Gratitude

2009-11-26T16:13:00.000-08:00

Expression of gratitude came from seeing how to view the gift. Slightest pleasure when seen from a smaller angle, which appears always grateful: ah, there is still more or less. But unfortunately, sometimes one can be larger than two.

God is so great pleasure slaves for him. In any case, nothing was spared in favor of a servant of God himself. Included in family life.

Anyone who ever, even probably, feel how unpleasant through life with their own. The world becomes felt narrow, simple, and there-spinning there. Do not be surprised if the single stress easier than it already married.

There are many other pleasures that no longer can count. There Zahir favor of adding material. And also favors the mind that life is more valuable.

Interestingly, gratitude may arise drowned. And one of the formulas to stay awake gratitude is to look at fewer. And, they look more or less. That's what Mom used to do Sisri.

Apparently, no mother happier than Mrs. Sisri. Mother of three children was always grateful, whatever the gift of God: a little, let alone a lot. Spoken like never dried from the word 'thank God'.

In fact, if viewed in terms of wealth, Mrs. Sisri not rich. His house no more than sixty square meters. No levels, and normal roof tiles. If it rains, Mom had trained Sisri put a bucket to accommodate roofs that leak. But, he remains grateful.

Mom who always addressed her Sisri about just one: there are still many people who have no home. He always closed his eyes when a neighbor, close friend who has a good home. "Let it their livelihood!" Bu Sisri said to her children.

Almost every day, Mrs. Sisri visiting neighbors whose homes are smaller, more narrow, more often leak, from Mrs. Sisri own home. He forced himself persist for at least an hour. It was then that he could listen to vent their neighbors. Sad. Far more sad than the house was Mrs. Sisri. After that, he said softly, "Thank God. I'm still better, O God!"

The most makes Sisri thanks Mom, about the bathroom. Imagine, a house four times the size of three feet of row about ten houses with ten families only available five bathrooms. In fact, one house may consist of six people. Make a facial, they have to queue. Mom did not imagine just what if Sisri already dying for a bowel movement. Although simple, Mrs. Sisri still have their own bathroom. At that moment, he was again able to say, "Thank God. Alhamdulillah. Thank God!"

Apparently, Mrs. gratitude Sisri a blessing. Without the slightest surprise, the legacy of marshland in-law sold expensive. In fact, the land area of four hundred square meters was almost forgotten her husband and Mrs. Sisri own. Because there is building the pass, builders ready to buy the land for one million per meter. In other words, the husband of Mrs. Sisri be worth the money shock four hundred million dollars. Subhanallah! Thanks our Allah!

Why so much money? Mrs. Sisri confused. He handed it to her husband's affair. After all, it was her own right. What is important for Mrs. Sisri, the children are no longer confused about the school fees. That's it. The other, whatever.

Since then, there were differences in the family atmosphere Sisri Bu. Houses have been repaired. Not what it used that often leak. Also have ceramic floors. Page terpagari with neat houses. Anyway, interesting. And more importantly, the children no longer sleep in any place. Because of their bedroom was built on the top floor.

Mrs. Sisri happy? Of course. He is very happy, grateful with abundant blessings. But, he felt something other than her husband. Mrs. Husband Sisri so often out of town. At least, that's what Mrs. Sisri heard from her husband's mouth when a few days do not come home. The uncomfortable, the husband of Mrs. Sisri often indifferent to the family atmosphere.

As usual, to keep thankfully, Mrs. Sisri who visited more uncomfortable than he. The best of friends when in high school Rohis Bu Sisri choice. Several years ago he had heard from another friend when his best friend's husband was left behind forever. Her husband died in an accident. And not one single child they get. Without a husband, no kids. "Poor thing!" Inner Sisri said Mrs. remember that. Although the journey must be nearly four hours, Mrs. Sisri willing bercapek-tired after a refreshing sense of gratitude that.

When that meeting, Mrs. Sisri had shed tears. He listened to all his friend's life story. Occasionally, his hands were busy rubbing tears that sometimes moist around the eyes and cheeks. At that moment, her gratitude to recover. What a pain of being without a husband. "Thank God, O God. I still have a husband," said Mrs. Sisri refreshing inner heart.

Lengthy story to a friend Mrs Sisri a time, "Thank God, I am now married again. One month ago." Bu Sisri smiling, too. "Thank God," said Mrs. Sisri said. "With whom?" asked Mrs. Sisri later.

The friend went for a while. He also returned with a framed photograph of an antique. There was a photo of the friend with a special outfit with her new husband.

"Husband?" Bu Sisri inner voice interrupted. He began to fidget with the photograph. His face was sweating. "His name?" asked Mrs. Sisri little shaky. And, almost fainted Sisri Mom. The reason, the name of the friend who called her husband's name exactly.

Feather sheet Eyes

2009-11-26T06:39:00.001-08:00

Described in Judgment Day future, there was a servant of God is on trial. He was convicted, old waste in the world for the sinner. But he insisted denied. "No. By the heaven and the earth was not true. I do not do all that.

"But witnesses said that you really have plunged yourself into sin," replied the angel. The man turned to the left and right, then to every corner. But strangely, he did not find any reply witnesses were standing. There was only him alone. So he went to refute, "Which witnesses are you talking about? Here there is no one but me and your voice." "These witnesses were," said the angel. Suddenly her eyes spoke, "I'm looking at." Followed by ear, "I wrote to listen." Nose was not left behind, "I'm a kiss." Lips confessed, "I am a flirt." Tongue adds, "I am the suck." Hand continued, "I have a feeling and squeezing." Leg up, "I used to run when caught." "Well if I allowed, all members of your body will testify about the actions that your shame, said the angel.

People are not able to open sanggahannya again. He was desperate and very sad, because it will soon end up in the inferno. In fact, he felt it had been freed from sin's allegations. When he was grief-stricken, suddenly heard a very soft voice of a piece of her lashes: "I also want to also take the oath as a witness." "Go ahead", said the angel. "Frankly, near death, on a deserted midnight reply, I've dibasahinya with tears when she was crying regret what is bad. Did not the prophet had promised, that if there was a servant and then repent, even though a piece of the lashes are water terbasahi eyes, but had forbidden him from the threat of hell fire

So I, a feather eyes, able to appear as a witness that he had done penance till my wet with tears of regret. "With a testimony that the lashes, the person on release from hell, and delivered to heaven. Until resonant voice to the residents heaven:

"Behold, the Servant of God was in heaven because of the help sheet eyelashes." (the grace of God) It's God's Gift Giver ....

Always I love you All

2009-11-26T04:11:00.002-08:00

I love you always,

When you wake up in the morning, I looked at you and hope you will talk to me., Telling stories, asking for my opinion, to say something for Me though only a word.

Or thank Me for the beautiful thing that happened in your life on the last night, yesterday, or last time ....

But I saw you so busy preparing to go to work ...

Not the least you menyedari I'm near you.

I was waiting to return you are preparing,

I know there will be little time for you to stop and say hello, but you are too busy ...

In one place, I melhat you sit without doing anything.

Then I saw you move your feet.

I think you'll take ablution and then came to prostrate themselves to me, but you ran to the phone and a friend to menelefon mere boast.

I saw you when you go to work and I waited patiently throughout the day. But with all of your activities I think you are too busy to say something to me.

Before lunch I saw you look around, maybe you felt embarrassed to talk to me, that's why you have not the slightest say hello.

You're looking at three or four tables around and see some of your friends talking and calling my name softly before handling food that I gave, but you do not do it ... ..

Yes, no why, there is still time left and I still hope you'll come to me, although when you go home it seems as if many things you have to do.

After the job is finished, you turn on the TV, I do not know if you like watching TV or not, you just always been there and spent many hours each day in front of him, without thinking about anything and just enjoy the show broadcasts, to time-forgotten time for Me.

Back I wait patiently while you enjoy your food but you forgot to call back my name and give thanks for food that I have given.

At bedtime I think you feel too tired.

After saying goodnight to your family, you jumped into bed and fall asleep without sepatahpun you call my name. Kerana probably not why you still do not realize that I'm always there for you.

I have to be patient for longer than you realize.

I even wanted to teach how to be patient with others. I love you, every day I look forward to a word from you, the phrase into your heart, but never arrived.

Well ... .. you woke up again and again I waited so lovingly that today you will give me a little time to say hello ...

But I waited too ... ah not you say hello.

Dawn, Noon, Afternoon, Sunset, Isha and ..

Dawn, lagi2 you still do not care about me.

Not a word, no seucap prayer, there was hope and a desire to prostrate themselves to me ....

Does my fault you ...? Kulimpahkan provision,

I give health, wealth which Kurelakan, Kuhidangkan food, Kukaruniakan salvation, the happiness that I am giving, does it not make you remember Me?

Believe me, I always love you, and I'm still hoping one day you will be greeted me, asked my protection, prostrate facing ... Return to Me.

What is with you every moment,

Thy Lord ....
[There Dammahum]

How valuable my father

2009-11-26T04:11:00.001-08:00

As always Andrew, Head of Branch in a leading private company in Jakarta, arrived at his home at 9 o'clock in the evening. Not as usual, Sarah, had her first daughter was sitting in the third grade to open the door for him .. IA appears to have waited long enough.

"Why, have not slept?" Andrew said, kissing her son.

Usually she was already asleep when he came home and was awake when the IA would go to the office the morning ..

He followed his Dad into the family room, she replied, "I'm waiting for Papa to go home. Because I want to ask how the hell salary Daddy?"

"Why tumben, kok nanya salary Daddy? Want to ask for money again, huh?"

"Ah, enggak. Pengen know aja" she said simply.

"Okay. You can count itself. Every Day Papa worked about 10 hours and are paid Rp. 400.000, -. Every month, calculated average 22 working days.

Saturday and Sunday off, sometimes Daddy was working late Saturday. So, Papa salary in one month how many, hayo? "

Sarah ran to take paper and pencil from the desk while daddy took off his shoes and turned on the television. When Andrew moved to the bedroom to change clothes, she ran after him. "Daddy Day Kalo one paid Rp. 400.000, - for 10 hours, meaning an hour Papa paid Rp. 40.000, - dong" he said.

"Well, you are clever.'s, Now wash your feet, sleep" command Andrew But Sarah did not budge. While watching daddy dressed, she again asked, "Daddy, I can borrow money USD. 5 .. 000, - what?"

"Yes, do not need all that. Why would ask for money at night? Papa tired. And take a shower first. Go to sleep".

"But Papa ..."

Andrew's patience was gone. "Papa told me to sleep!" Sarah snapped surprising. The little boy turned to his room.

After bathing, Andrew seems to regret he barked. He also looked Sarah in her bedroom. His favorite was not asleep. Sarah was found sobbing quietly while holding money USD. 15.000, - in his hands.

As I lay down and stroked the little boy's head, Andrew said, "I'm sorry Papa, dear, I love just her. But what the hell asked for money at night? If you want to buy toys, tomorrow it could be. Not only Rp. 5000, - more than it was Papa's love "said Andrew

"Papa, I enggak asking for money. I'm just borrowing.'ll Return when I have been saving more than spending money for this week".

"Yes, yes, but for what?" Andrew said softly.

"I waited for Dad from 8. I want to take Dad to play snake ladder. Thirty minutes aja. Mama always said that when Papa's reply is very valuable.

So, I want to change when Papa. I opened my savings, just There Rp. 15.000, - but because Papa said Papa hour paid Rp. 40.000, - then half an hour I had to replace the USD. 20.000, -. But the money savings is less USD. 5000, so I want to borrow from Papa "she said innocently.

Andrew was silent. IA a loss for words. The little boy hugged tightly with feeling emotion. [Wesker Redfield]

Learning From A Donkey

2009-11-26T04:10:00.001-08:00

One day a farmer's donkey fell into the well. While the farmer, the owner, thinking about what to dilakukannya.Akhirnya, he decided that the animal was old and also needs to be backfilled well as dangerous. So useless
help the donkey. He invites his neighbors to help her. They brought a shovel and started shoveling dirt into the well.

When the donkey realized what was happening, he struggled. But later, he became silent. After a few shovels dirt is poured into the well, the farmer looked into the well and back on melihatnya.Walaupun stunned overwritten by bersekop-shovel dirt and grime, the donkey was doing something to shake menakjubkan.Ia body in order to land a hit back down to down, then up the land. The farmers continued to pour dirt into the back of a dirty animal
it, but the donkey was also kept menguncangkan body and then stepped up. The donkey could eventually jump from the well and then run away.

Reflection:
Life continued to pour dirt and grime to us, all kinds of dirt and grime. The way to get out of the "well" (sadness and problems) is to menguncangkan all soil and dirt from ourselves (our minds and hearts) and stepped up by using such things as stepping (experience).

Each of our problems is a stepping stone to move. We can get out of the "well" with the deepest continue to struggle, never give up. Guncangkanlah negative things that happen, and step up ...^_^

Plug and Play

2009-11-26T04:09:00.000-08:00

Make your computer must have known that his name alias USB Universal Serial Bus, port is capable of connecting all the connectivity is easy and concise.

Just plug konseksinya live what you need can be directly applied, flashdisc, blue tooth, sound card, internet connection, and so forth without prior installation, call bekennya "Plug and Play".

Amazingly it turned out like all of our relationship with God, "plug and play" pray earnestly endeavor continued with the optimum, then enjoy the results. plug and play, no-frills others. very easy!

remember what God says to us:
"Pray to Me I will certainly grant all your prayers"
easy ...

so do not be afraid to go unanswered ... believe it! congratulations to pray. [Ryan Martian]

Love wasted

2009-11-26T04:08:00.000-08:00

This is a story.,., Which describes how a parent's love for us, but sometimes many are not grateful.,
* not be touched by reading it, may be useful ^ ^ for all ...

A young man about to graduate, soon he will be a scholar, the end of his efforts for several years on the bench of education. A few months ago he passed a showroom, and then he fell in love with a sports car, the latest from Ford. For several months he had always imagined, then at his father's graduation would have to buy the car. He was sure, because he's an only child and her father is very dear to him, so he'll really believe he'll get the car. He also dreamed of driving a car, having fun with her friends, even the dream that he told his keteman.

It's time arrived, the afternoon, after graduation, he stepped into his father's will. The father smiled, and with tears in her eyes as she expressed how touched he was proud of his son, and how much he loved his son. Then he took out a parcel, ... not a lock! With a broken heart the child receiving the package, and very disappointed he opened it. And behind the wrapping paper that he found a Qur'an which bersampulkan genuine leather, beautiful dikulit name was engraved with gold ink. The young man became angry, raised voice he shouted, "yaahh ... Dad was very loved me, with all the money my father, my father bought this Qur'an for me? "Then she slammed the Qur'an and his father fled. His father could not say anything, her heart broken, he stood still to watch thousands of pairs of eyes are present at the time.

Year after year passed, the child has become a success, with a brilliant brain capitalize he managed to become a respectable. He has a big house and luxury, and surrounded by a beautiful wife and children are smart. Meanwhile, his father grew older and lived alone. Since it was graduation day, he left her and never contacted him. He hopes one day to meet his son, only to convince him how his love for the child.

The children were sometimes missed and wanted to meet with the father, but remember what happened on the day of his graduation, he became very hurt and vengeful.

Until one day came a telegram from the prosecutor's office reported that his father had died, and before his father died, he left all his property to his only son's. The child was told to face the district attorney, and together the father's house to take care of all legacy assets. We walked into the house, her heart suddenly became very sad, remembering all the memories while he lived there.

He felt very sorry to have to be bored with her father. With the shadows of the past who danced in his eyes, he traced all the home stuff. And when he opened his safe, he found the Qur'an was, still wrapped in the same paper a few years lalu.Dengan tears in his eyes, he then picked up the Koran, and began to open its pages. On the first page of the Qur'an that he read his father's handwriting, 'Father is very loving and proud of you son .. "

He finished reading it, something fell from the back of the Qur'an. He picked it up, .... A car key! In the car key chains printed name of the dealer, together with the sports car dealership that had he wanted! He opened the last page

A-Quran, and found it tucked away in vehicle registration and other papers, his name printed on it. and a car purchase receipt, the date just a day before it was graduation day.

He ran toward the garage, and there he found a car that was covered with dust for years, even though the car was very dirty because it is not touched in years, he still knows clearly that car, sports car which he had longed for years ago. With a rush he remove the dust on car windows and peered inside. the inside of the car was new, plastic wrap and wheel the car seat, on top dashboardnya a photograph, pictures of his father, was smiling proudly.

Suddenly she became weak, then sat beside it, unstoppable tears, flowed on the accompanying feeling sorry can not be cured ... ... [brother of Al-Fatih Berin]

Love Islam School

2009-11-26T04:07:00.000-08:00

What's the most awaited, a woman who had just married? Surely the answer is pregnancy. How far one way to go, as heavy as any steps that must be rocked, however long a time lived, relentless certainty to get one from a midwife; "positive".

Although heavy, no one made him able to survive unless the seed in the womb. Crying, laughing, sad and happy no different to him, because he was more interested in what your child feels in his stomach. Often he asked; menangiskah he? Tertawakah he? Sad or bahagiakah he's in there? Even when the time comes, nothing can match the love that had given, when the dead would be at stake as long as the successor generation can be born into the world. The pain was gone instantly hear the first cries of the baby, no matter the blood and sweat that kept pouring. At that moment, an episode just love spinning.

No one was more proud to be discussed in addition to the children. Not one of the most interesting themes to be discussed with co-workers, peers, relatives and families, except the children. Little had just blurted out "Ma ..." He immediately picked up the phone to preach to all who have listed phone. As the first stand, she cried hysterically, of emotion, pride and a little bit afraid of the fall and injuries. The first day of school was when she first witnessed her first step of success. While at the same time, his mind continued to wander and never left his lips to pray, hoping her husband did not stop provision. In order for the small footsteps was not stopped in the middle of the road.

"For the children", "For the children", a major reason when he was in the market little shopping. When he was in a party of a relative or a family and a few pieces of food wrapped in tissue. He always remembered his son every mouthful of rice, every bite of cake, each time going shopping for clothes for her. Not infrequently, he nevertheless bought clothes for him and changed to take clothes for children. In fact, just yesterday afternoon she bought baby clothes. Even though, sometimes he must owe. Again, the one reason, for the sake of children.

While dazed mind set of limited finances, check out his notes. In the small paper that reads: 1. Children school fees, 2. Buy milk children, ... The next sequence number only needs the other. But obviously there is always the child needs to be priorities. In fact, there is no rice at home was not why, as long as baby milk still be bought. Will not let your baby cry, nothing will be done in order to smile and laugh merrily still sound.

He became a teacher who was never paid, became an assistant who had never paid, a waitress who often forgotten respected, and become Babbysitters most loyal. Occasionally he became a singing princess sweet snow waiting for edits from the prince. The next day he would become the neighing of horses, ran after him and banish the enemy so as not to interfere. Or when he was with lihainya become a rabbit hopping around the garden, looking for carrots to eat everyday. Only the screams of laughter and fun needed to hear of stories that never absent didongengkannya. Drowsiness and fatigue are no longer ignored, even to disguise the yawn sound with a tiger's roar. Or to pretend the witch fell and died just to be able to close my eyes for a second. However, your child is not too closed, and asked him to tell stories to all. In sleepiness, he kept even storytelling.

Nothing is done at every morning before breakfast the children will go to college. Not one of the most awaited return in addition to her husband and children dear. Sentence immediately, "had anything to eat yet?" do not forget the time just flew into the house. No matter though the little one had often buckle in her arms she had become adults who can buy their own lunch on campus.

Days when the adult child who has been able to take important decisions in her life, to determine the path of life with her partner, who is the most crying? Who was the first to shed tears? Look at the corner of his eye, has become the ocean of tears in an instant. Heavy-hearted steps led her to the fruit aisle seat. he cried to see her son smiling happily clad in a wedding dress. At that moment, he realized the baby years into a puddle outpouring of love was no longer only his. There is one more heart is tied, in which he hoped berlirih, "Shall you my son?"

As dusk arrived. When the wrinkles on the hands and face began to talk about her age. He also realized, that in a minute's time ended. Only one asked often spoken from his lips, "if the mother dies, the mother wanted the children to bathe the mother. I want a bath with your lap". Not only that, any prayer he asked for the body of one of her children. "To not waste your educating mothers become a righteous son since childhood," he said.

Duh mother, hopefully I can answer that later pintamu. How could I not want to meet that begged? Since my mother had taught him the little meaning of love really. Mom is my love madrassas, schools that only have one subject: love. Schools that there is only one teacher: lovers. Schools that all students were given a name: the dicinta. [Bayu Gawtama]

Precious gift

2009-11-26T04:04:00.000-08:00

By the holidays, a father bought a few rolls of wrapping paper.

Young daughter, was a toddler, asking for a roll.

"For what?" asked the father.

"For the present, would love a gift." replied the little guy.

"Do not waste it." the father's message, while giving a small roll.

Just on holidays, early child was awake and woke his father, "Pa, Pa was a gift for Daddy."

The father is still lazily, his eyes were not yet awake, said, "Come later."

But the tenacious little, "Dad, Dad, wake up Dad, it's noon."

"Ah, you gimana sih, early in the morning was bangunin Papa."

He recognized the wrapping paper he had given to his son.

"Reward what ya?"

"Gift for Daddy holidays. Open Pa dong, open now."

And his father opened the package. It turned out that in it is just an empty box.

Does not contain anything. "Ah, you could have. Bingkisannya koq empty. What a waste of wrapping paper Papa. Kan expensive?"

Little replied, "No Dad, not empty. Earlier, the Princess enter so buaanyaak kiss for Daddy."

The father was touched, he lifted his son. Embraced, kissed.

"Princess, Daddy had never received this beautiful gift. Papa will always keep this box. Papa will bring to the office and once in a while if need kisses princess, Daddy would take one. Later when a refill empty ya!"

~ ~ ~

My friend, who just empty boxes previously considered not contain, do not have any value, was suddenly filled, suddenly have such a high value.

What happened?

Then, although the box has a very high value in the eyes of his father, in the eyes of other people still did not have any value. Other people think it will remain empty box.

Empty for a person can be filled by others. In contrast, full of empty one can be considered by others.

Empty and full - both are products of the "mind" of our own.

As we looked at life, so our lives.

Life becomes meaningful, meaningless, because we give meaning to him, to give meaning to him.

For those who do not give meaning, does not give meaning, life is like a blank sheet of paper ...........

Do not look at life with a pessimistic ... give meaning and significance to make a better life ...

Look .... listen .... Taste was very much .... good God has given to us ....

The beauty Istiqamah ...

2009-11-26T04:01:00.000-08:00

"Those who say 'Rabbunaa' l-Laahu 'then they istiqaamah (affirming the establishment), then the angels will descend upon them (saying),' Do not be afraid and do not be sad and glad you with jannah that God had promised to you "(Surat FUSH-SHILAT: 30)

The sky above us that stretched as far as the eye could see she sometimes bright blue and sometimes the clouds rolling-decorated wine, beautiful and soothing, but it is sometimes scary and dark blackened seemed less friendly. And he is God's creation .....
Similarly, our earth trampling, we spit, we are full of garbage and sesaki with dirt, she's so beautiful sometimes charming, sometimes reassuring and he also seemed distant, refusing our presence, and she brought God's creation, too .....
They are creations of God who never separated from the orbit of compliance, the path and position keta'atan resignation.

How beautiful they istiqomah .....

Their submission to the role so naturally, they are not keta'atan imposed. Sincere ... We ...??? What about us ...???
Confirms the position that our Lord is God and maintain our consistent as the slave of servants of God is another uphill battle. And often he had to pay dearly in drip tears, sweat and blood.
May struggle to keep istiqomah must end with a smash broken body on the cross (Khubaib bin 'Ady), or into the hot pan dijerumuskan already filled with boiling oil (Siti Masithoh), or perhaps the body because rosaknya roasted sun deck, dihentam all-out and stabbed with a spear from the base to the tip of the head peha (Sumaiyyah).
But .... semerbaknya They have felt the sacrifice and gather the fruits are ripe and fragrant. They've drank the pond of happiness and comfort reach the heavenly garden which could not keni'matannya unmatched by our lives now.
So, how do we ...?
It was when ruled by RasululLaah SAW for "Amantu bi 'l-Laahi, thumma' staqim", then our attitude may be the same as Sufyaan ibn 'Abdi' l-Laahi specifically with this statement we will be busy and too busy to continue working with istiqomah our faith.
Declaration of faith that requires embodiment, request proof and demanded 'charity Salih. It is proof that is not necessarily synonymous with violence, outrageous or even torture, murder, but if that happens then we have received and sewajarnyalah sacrifice meni'mati.
Sacrifice (At-Tadhhiyyah) is the right of every Muslim. Every Muslim has demanded the right granted him and gave up his body to be evidence of sacrifices in order istiqomah with faith to God who creates, giving rezeqi and bought every one of us.
Istiqomah is evidence of a determination to keep running Sabiili fii 'l-laah and embodiment akhlaqu' l-kariimah. He is consistent, and persistent resistance.
How wonderful if we could end the life of the play and this mirage istiqomah in His ways. The road already taken by the Prophets and the Apostles, the Shiddiqqiin (category honest with syahadahnya), the Shoolihiin (among those who Salih and always spread kesholihan) and successor-successors. The road which according lust slaves and servants of Satan is a street full of thorns, painful, and stupid, but ...
We think he is the only road that led us to mardhoti 'l-laah, jannahNya and certainly a beautiful way ...
"Among those who believe there are people right with his promise to God. Among those who have fulfilled a promise (see syahidnya) and among them are still waiting (to see syahidnya) and they did not change his word. " (Surat al-Ahzab: 23)
How pretty istiqomah it ... Wa 'l-bi Laahu knows best' sh-Showaab. [Aidil HERYANA]

Prejudiced Bad And Others Finding Errors = Opens Own Shame

2009-11-26T03:59:00.001-08:00

As human beings in general, must have a mistake and also had a shame that should be closed cover, but most among mankind itself is always a lot of fun even memperguncingkan-boo disgrace of others, but what they were saying no worse than shame itself. And if anyone of you really love the open shame others, besides Allah will open the shame itself, is also a very painful punishment will be inflicted on them in the world and the hereafter.

Allah says in al-Quran surah Al-Hujurat: 12,

"O ye who believe, avoid most of prejudice. Indeed some suspicion is a sin and do not find fault with other people. Sukakah one of you eat the flesh of his brother who has become dead? So, you would have felt disgusted. Fear Allah, for Allah is Oft Recipient repentance, Most Merciful. "

The Prophet said, "Whoever is searching for his brother so bad God must have looked for mistakes and who is searching for his brother nescaya evil God will open even keaibannya-the-spot in his own house." (Hadith history: at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Hibban)

And warning Allah in the Qur'an it is:
"Those who want the (news) is a very cruel act was spread among those who believe, for them a painful punishment in the world and the Hereafter." (Surah an-Nur: 19)

Na'uzubillah!

Berburuk thought (su'uzhan) on others will make our hearts are tired and rotten. So also will be able to influence the way of thinking, way of being, and how to make a decision. In addition to liver damage, would also eliminate su'uzhan happiness, and will damage the morality of our position tainted with Allah.

If we realize that it was bad su'uzhan result, then why do we not have thought good enough (husnuzhan) only to other people?

Death Watch

2009-11-26T03:31:00.003-08:00

Many people laugh without (want to) realize the death was quick mengintainya.Banyak people come to pray Like a row of people who hanker lover. Unfortunately he was rushed just to get pergi.Seperti abusive debt collectors he treated his Lord.

Someone is coming just to meet the routine tasks of religious machine. Cold, dry and empty, with no reception. Gone was searched, there was not grateful. From the ignorant and the learned you were told there was nothing to stop idzin on charitable ilmu.Engkau charged with knowledge that GOD gave. Without that it would be great wrath upon GOD.

Tersanjungkah clever you talk about the silence of silent whimper ditingkah seek forgiveness, kecupak cold water at night wudlu, hungry stomach or depth shiam munajat in cycles-long cycles.

Tersanjungkah you with a smooth tongue spoken, while in your heart there's no chewing apa.Kau myth and thought giving people good-hearted people was clear, that you are a devout, pious, devout again mujahid, and satisfied to believe that without a sense of horror.

Abu Bakr Asshiddiq Ra. Always shaking when praised people. "Oh GOD, make me better than they had thought, do not I am the law because of what they say and forgive me because of their lack of knowledge", he said softly.

There are people working hard at the expense of so much property and money, then he forgot all that and never remember again. There are great people and always did good recall, even some mention. There are some people claiming charitable malnya very much. And there are people who have not been doing a good deed, and felt a lot of charities and blamed the people who labor, due to lack of or non-compliance with the charity of their personal thoughts, or do not want to lose and fall behind the fighters.

They have been working with the words exchanged. Where you place yourself?

As a child, you are so afraid of the dark, sound and all that foreign. So often you tremble and fear. After the experience and knowledge grew, thou dare to appear in front of an emperor without fear. All have become common, with no sense.

How many days have you lived in the mud that killed your heart so that the vibration was felt again when you ma'siat teasing and meni'matinya? The nights passed without a single valuable rakaatpun you do. Age reduced without elevated levels of spiritual maturity. Shame to GOD, where you bury him?

Outside shame no price. They sell themselves openly through the glass screen, the cover of a magazine or even through direct bidding. This portrait of country: 228,000 adolescents suffer mix. 1500 respondents from junior high & high school age, 25% claimed to have committed adultery and almost separohnya agree teenagers having sex outside of marriage just do not with rape.

Maybe you start thinking "Jamaklah, if I flirt with women activists if you are a man or vice versa in the crevices of meetings or dialogue within very close range or on the phone with the added time you need not just a joke off boredom with long-distance" What a plural 'little sin' is in your heart.

Where the vibrations are restless and wounded first, when "Evil TV" broadcast all "fanatical rage, and immoral"? When you are sick to see the man (sissy) dressed women, because you're so supportive ustadzmu saying "

If GOD has cursed the men and women dressed in male clothes, laughing merrily watching what they do not act cursed? "Or godly current together, and the most loudly shout" This is not un-Islamic "means the most un-Islamic, after the affair stay between you by yourself, there is no GOD there?

Now you have a good cadre. No longer shy to appear.
Indeed, you will be confronted by the challenge: very shy to hold your hand from gentle handshake opposite sex that young and fresh.
Heart of a flowery mass in front of thousands. All motion should be measuring and spout on favorite judgment or hate people, even if it means sacrificing the best value that you have.

Forgotten thee, if bidikanmu to miss a target 1 millimeter, then at a distance of 300 yards he's not 1 millimeter off the mark again? Inhiraf so far among the laity, to some extent because the elite have been one step ahead.

Who wants to respect the ummah the "chaplain" of his pay several hundred thousand to a woman who a few minutes before he Fuck on a five-star hotel room, and then casually said "That's my dowry, and the guardian angel of GOD is my witness" and after that everything is complete, passed without guilt?

Who will look da'inya ummah who posed closely with a young female artist and singer said "This is my son, because the position of teachers in Islam is the father, even closer than the biological father and father-in-law?"

Would you also add to the confusion row ummah and register themselves as 'alimullisan (' alim in the tongue)? Do you think, after all the superficiality of this you still safe from the possibility of falling into the same valley?

What is the difference menzinai a teenager with a school friend who seduce pious women colleagues in da'wahnya activities? Will you rely on the public respect because of your status and then you attack their disobedience increasingly cornered by retorikamu conjured? If so, what kind of corrupt art thou? Once you see a pair of mami and papi with their teenagers. Look at their steps at the mall. How much their contribution to modernization by consuming lots of junk food products, simply because nuance "of his westerns. You will be a tough debater faqih when you gulp drink it halal, with a feeling of "look, how American I am". Indeed, because no American or not American, but if you have pride. [Alm KH. Rahmat Abdullah]

Power Pray

2009-11-26T03:29:00.000-08:00

Assalamu `alaykum wr.wb.

Alhamdulillahi, on occasion this time allow me to share experiences about Dzikrullah ...

"ONLY BY SWT Alloh REMEMBER, THE HEART TO BE CALM"

In our daily lives, we always try to make dhikr, not only with verbal, but our hearts are also dhikr also ...

Believe it or not?!, Dhikr has a power of the Most Powerful ...
I've been there ... Among them, remembering to heal sickness, dhikr can reassure that are volatile with all its problems, and dhikr able to drive our fear of things beyond our logic ...

Prayer and remembrance can not be separated from each other. Prayer likened the main door lock of a house and dhikr a way likened to enter the rooms in the house yanga there is.

Prayer is the key to enter the Syurga, REMEMBER !!!!! When we die, the prayer is the first thing we accounted diahadapan Alloh SWT, not the practices of our ....!

And if we are able to establish with khusyu prayers, it means we already have a key to enter heaven ..

Perbanyaklah dzikrulalh in every second of our breath up the road to heaven Alloh SWT lancer and freeway. [Azzahra Dzikra]

Jazakillah Khoiron ...

Wassalamu `alaykum wr.wb.

Following Many People

2009-11-26T03:26:00.000-08:00

Security

Following the number of people are causing us to feel comfortable because a lot of friends, many people follow it can lead to peace because a lot of friends who feel the same boat and have a lot to prove. Following a lot of people are led to a sense of security because we are supported by many people and not against the will of the people and the generality of people.

The dilemma follows a lot of people

Many verses in our holy tuntutunan saying "most men are not grateful, most people did not know, most people were negligent, most people do not believe". We are confronted with a dilemma on the one hand we are glad to comfort by following a lot of people on the other side of God warned us to be cautious with the number of people.

Not Just follow

The choice of course is not just participate or just different from most people because if the standard of our options only just joined and would cause a lot of different relativity. Following a lot of people do not necessarily wrong, as different from a lot of people do not necessarily true. Truth it is clear that "Al Haqqu min rabbika - The Truth is from your Lord", this is our standard. If most people follow the truth of God's important for us to follow and vice versa if different so it follows that God is our choice.

Consistency Value

Consistency will hold on to values that make us a personal or school that has a characteristic. Amid the view to put forward educational and academic figures large in the final exam without memeperhatikan process and values held by students as an educational product, the private school or out of Padangan pibadi it will be different and will look like against the flow of generally community.

Different options

Schools (and private) who chose to be different from most people certainly will find and test the reaction, that's where the struggle sunahnya time will tell because each of us are awaiting the results of the deeds we do. [Agus Awaludin]

And Allaah knows best.