Ummu Fadhl -Rodhiallahu 'anha-

He is Lubabah bint al-Haris ibn Bajir bin Huzn bin Hilaliyah. He is Lubabah al-Kubra, known as the Umm Fadl kuniyahnya. Umm Fadl was one of four women who expressed his faith by the Prophet Sholallahu 'alaihi wasallam. The fourth woman is Maimunah, Umm Fadl, Asma 'and Salma.

As is the Mother of the Believers Maimunah Rodhiallahu 'anha brother of Umm Fadl. While Asma 'and Salma are both sisters of the road because both his father is the daughter of' Umais.

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha was the wife of Abbas, uncle of the Prophet Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam, and mother of six noble, intelligent, and yet there was a woman who gave birth to men like them. They are Fadl, Abdullah al-Faqih, al-Faqih Ubaidullah, Ma'bad, Qatsam and Abdurrahman.

About this Fadl Umm Abdullah ibn Yazid said,
No man who gave birth to the people that I see leading as the sixth son of Umm FADH
Son of two noble parents
Uncle Mustafa noble Nabiyul
Closing the Apostles and the best of messengers
Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha converted to Islam before the Hijrah, he was the first woman who converted to Islam after Khadijah (Mother of the Believers Rodhiallahu' anha) as reported by his son Abdullah ibn Abbas Rodhiallahu 'anhu, "My mother and I are among those who are oppressed of women and children. "

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha including high-ranking woman and noble among the women. Sholallahu Rasulullah 'alaihi wasallam sometimes visit him and sometimes a nap in his house.

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha was a brave woman and faithful, who fought the enemy of Abu Lahab Allaah and killed him. Narrated by Ibn Ishak from Ikrimah said, "Abu Rafi 'slave of Allah Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam said, 'I've become slaves to Abbas, when Islam came to the Abbas to Islam followed by Umm Fadl, but Abbas is still respected for his people."

Abu Lahab could not accompany the war of Badr and mewakilkannya to Ash bin Hisham bin Mughirah, so their habits when not following a war so he represents to others.

When came the news of what had happened to the people of Quraysh in the battle of Badr in which Allaah has been humiliating and degrading Abu Lahab, then on the other hand we feel the strength and 'Izzah ourselves. I was a man who is weak, I'm working to make glass that I carve in the rocks around the zam-zam, for the sake of Allah one day I was sitting there next to me while Umm Fadl, who was sitting, before we walk, but no good has come down to us, suddenly there came a run of Abu Lahab then sitting, when she sat suddenly people say, 'This is it Abu Sufyan ibn al-Harith had come from Badr. Abu Lahab said, "Come over here so I'm waiting for your news.

Then sit Abu Jahl and the people stood gathered around him. Abu Lahab said, "O son of my brother preach how the human condition (in the battle of Badr)?" Abu Sufyan said, "By Allah, when we meet them, they suddenly will not cease attacking our forces, they fight against us as they pleased, and they captured us they liked. By God even when I raise such forces, we saw a group of male black and white horse was in the midst of men, by God they did not set foot on the ground. "

Abu Rafi 'said, "I picked up a stone in my hands, then said,' By Allah it is an angel. Suddenly Abu Lahab fist and hit me with a hard blow, so I've made him angry, then he grabbed me and slammed me to the ground, then she sit me and beat me while I was a man who is weak. All of a sudden there stood Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha took a stone pillar and his Tap your hard on the head of Abu Lahab that hurt him badly. Rodhiallahu Umm Fadl' anha said, 'I have so weaken its credibility fell. "

Then wake up in a state of Abu Lahab humiliated, By Allah he does not live after that but only seven in the evening to which Allaah has laid on Him the ulcer disease that causes death. "

Such treatment of a brave woman who mukminah against the enemy which Allaah has thus become gugurlah pride and honor because of tainted merosotlah. What a proud history of Islam which has been recorded Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha as a model for the women who nurtured by Islam.

Ibn Sa'd mentions in the ath-al-Kubra Thabaqat that Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha a day dream with a wonderful dream, so she hastened to complain to the Prophet Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam, he said, "O Messenger of Allah I am dreaming as though some of thy members should be in my house. " Sholallahu Rasulullah 'alaihi wasallam said,
"Your dream is good, later Fatima gave birth to a boy who later would you feed it with milk that you give for your kid (Qatsam)."

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha came out with joy because of the news, and not long after Fatimah Rodhiallahu' anha delivery Hasan ibn Ali Rodhiallahu 'anhu who later cared for by Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu' anha.

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha said, "when I came Suata Messenger Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam, with a baby is the Messenger of Sholallahu 'alaihi wasallam immediately picked her up and kissed the baby, but suddenly the baby peed Sholallahu Rasulullah' alaihi wasallam, and he He said, "O Umm Fadl hold this child because he has mengencingiku."

Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha said, "So I took the baby and I pinched that she was crying, I said," You have trouble because you have the Messenger of Allah on him. "When seeing the baby's crying Sholallahu Rasulullah' alaihi wasallam said," O Umm Fadl you are troubling precisely because it has made my son cry. "Then the Prophet Sholallahu 'alaihi wasallam asked for water and he splashed into the urine affected later said,
"If a baby boy then percikilah with water, but when she then wash the baby."

Among the memorable events Lubabah bint al-Haris Rodhiallahu 'anha is when many people asked him when the day of `Arafah is the Messenger of Allah Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam shaum or not? So with his policies, he eliminates the problems that had befallen the Muslims in a way he called one of his children and then told him to send a glass of milk to the Prophet Sholallahu 'alaihi wasallam, when he was in Arafat, and then when he found the Prophet Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam to be seen by everyone he accepted a glass of milk and then drink it.

On the other side of Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha studying hadith ash-Sharif from the Prophet Sholallahu' alaihi wasallam, and he narrated the hadith as many as thirty. As for who narrated from him is his son he Abdulllah ibn Abbas Rodhiallahu 'anhu, that is his slave Tamam, Anas Ibn Malik, and others.
Then wafatlah Umm Fadl Rodhiallahu 'anha at the time of Caliph Ustman ibn Affan Rodhiallahu' anhu after left us a good example that should be imitated as a mother who gave birth shalihah figures such as Abdullah ibn Abbas Rodhiallahu 'anhu; kyai Turjumanul people and the Koran ( an expert in the interpretation of the Koran), So has provided the best example for us in terms of heroism which emanates from the true belief that comes from the courage that the enemy could drop Allaah has given the most severe hostility. [Mahmud Mahdi al-Istanbuly]

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Doom is like a bill of debt. Not expected to come, but certainly visited. Anyone will be able to turn traffic deaths. No matter the age, let alone social status. Sometimes, never imagined, when death is ready to meet a dear person.

Not all of us ready to face the death of those we love. Does the mother, father, husband, wife, children and other relatives. In a variety of unpreparedness that we can react unconsciously expressed. Started crying, angry, and even fainting. And that is now faced Bu Neng.

A month already Bu Neng second son died. The youngest age of three years is no longer helpless in the face Tipes disease. Actually, the boy kept hoping for Bu Neng large: cute, smart, nimble, and obedient. There are many other good qualities that only Mother Neneng themselves understood.

She could still see how the child's prayer. Diligent, but funny. He often wore his cap a big course. One of the most harmonious prayer the youngest hate: basil. The reason, in the fall rukulah cap. "Well, come off!" Said the youngest in memory of Mrs. Neneng.

His smile was the youngest has not lost in the shadow of Bu Neng. Sweet, charming. Tiredness after the trouble in the kitchen could vanish if the youngest smile. "Tired, yes, Mom?" He said, taking off his smile. Her lips parted beautiful. His gaze was so hard to interpret a concern that very deep. Like, he wanted to give a gift in exchange for Bu Neng distress. But, just a smile can offer.

"Ah, my son ...," Mrs. Neneng muffled voice. Mothers who are also employees of a private company as drawn in the shadow of the youngest lawsuit. If it were so, he drowned in guilt. He felt that his work has split at the office of his two worlds. World women and women who want to develop the potential and careers.

However, the sharpness of the lawsuit that her husband often blunted Bu Neng. "You're not the type of mother who abandoned the child. And again, hours of work you're only six hours a day, "said the husband assured. At that moment, the spirit of Bu Neng refreshed. Speech he really think his heart straight crookedness that is not karuan.

Bu Neng also been blamed aides. "What the hell, sister. Kok sick children do not cepet taken to a doctor! Basic village! "Bu Neng snapped one day. No longer control his anger. He forgot about his anger was directed to an old woman the same age as her mother. Santunnya suddenly evaporates some where. And, Inahlah Mbok tears that eventually reduce Bu Neng emotions. Sobs a woman who had little care when re-align Bu Neng reason.

Unfortunately, reasoning that came too late. Inah Mbok already sick. His heart was torn apart by words such as his young master. Inah Mbok really want to protest. Bu Neng not just a loss, he was like losing a precious jewel. That alone makes the heart stricken. Especially if blame blame as 'village'! Since then, Bu Neng no longer able to enjoy Inah Mbok services. The old mother had returned home.

Who else can be blamed? The feeling is that often piercing the heart Bu Neng. Her subconscious was still unable to accept the reality of what happened. Why should the youngest. Why not someone else. Why God is not fair!

Make this one, awareness Bu Neng actually in the lowest level. And that's when he thought the conflict had claimed his understanding of destiny. He was disappointed with the verdict of God. In fact, once he understood that God is Wise. He knew very well that a bad event has two sides: the test and wisdom.

But, that's where the problem. Disappointment Bu Neng had buried his consciousness. He no longer could see the two sides. Examination was heavy make sense Bu Neng dose. And, his views about the wisdom behind it like a suspicion of smoke covered in destiny. Why should the youngest is just three years to enjoy life? Why not him. He is more pleasure if the bungsulah who feel what he feels right now.

Maybe, when this is Mrs. Neneng feel something tangible from destiny. That fate, especially in contact with the dying will intersect with a lot of things. Problem understanding, maturity, readiness, awareness, and patience. How often, he said 'take what is' to a friend musibah.Tapi affected, it is only limited understanding. Others have not.

Bu Neng consciousness began to recover when he looked around the room his home. Lonely. No more giggling laughter the youngest. No more saying 'Tired, huh Mom?'. No more entertainment cap fell. No more smile that makes good heart. That is the reality. Life is real, there was death. If you dare to accept life, why be afraid to meet death. "My youngest is already dead," whispered her heart of hearts. Slowly but surely, his consciousness began to rise.

Bu Neng awareness figure reminiscent of a Muslim in the time of the Prophet, Umm Sulaym. A mother who just hid the news of the death of the son of his father's only child traveling far. She worried that her husband was shocked. With patience, awareness, and maturity, sweet tertutur news of his mouth. "The owners have taken possession of dititipkanNya," that's saying to her husband Sulaim Umm.

How he was very familiar about the story, but only time can give birth admiration. Not all knowledge led to consciousness. And this time, he really felt dwarfed when compared with the story he used to say it. How could a mother can cope with single sons obituaries.

"Astaghfirullah!" Bu Neng began regret that. Knows how many victims who have been subjected to kepicikannya. Somehow Inah Mbok feeling in the village now. And one more, he has sued the wisdom of the All-Wise, God Almighty.

Life and death are the secrets of God. No one who knows, what life was born. And no one thinks, who picked up the death. Doom is not like a bill of debt. Only difference, death came not say anything. [muhammadnuh@eramuslim.com]